After my last post Reflecting on 2015 I’ve been thinking a lot. I received a message shortly after publishing the post and it really hit me. Last year as much as I was working on my happiness and it did get a lot better some of the ‘bad days’ I discussed were times I let my happiness and strength be controlled by someone else. I came to a decision on New Years eve to not let them do this anymore. No one should be letting anyone else control them, their lives, their happiness or their strength. I did this for so long and it affected me really badly. You need to take control of your own life. You need to show your strength and you need to not let others break down those walls. This is what I am learning and I think its so important. If you have someone in your life who is having a negative effect on you, leave them in 2015. Surround yourself with people who will let you become the person you want to be.